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OVERLY CRITICAL: Sucking the joy out of the game.
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<blockquote data-quote="Umbran" data-source="post: 7875791" data-attributes="member: 177"><p>This is the important thing, not just for giving feedback, but just for yourself, both during and after the session.</p><p></p><p>If you are constantly focused on things that might be less than perfect, that means those things are taking up your attention. If your attention is taken up, then you are not paying attention to the good things in the session. This leads to a sort of confirmation bias - you don't see the good things, because you are so focused on other stuff, so of course the result seems bad to you.</p><p></p><p>Mind you, there are things of sufficient power and scope that you don't ignore them. Like, a toxic person at the table - no amount of "look past that" will serve you well there. But a whole lot of our nitpicks are not themselves game-killers if we don't set them up to be so.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Umbran, post: 7875791, member: 177"] This is the important thing, not just for giving feedback, but just for yourself, both during and after the session. If you are constantly focused on things that might be less than perfect, that means those things are taking up your attention. If your attention is taken up, then you are not paying attention to the good things in the session. This leads to a sort of confirmation bias - you don't see the good things, because you are so focused on other stuff, so of course the result seems bad to you. Mind you, there are things of sufficient power and scope that you don't ignore them. Like, a toxic person at the table - no amount of "look past that" will serve you well there. But a whole lot of our nitpicks are not themselves game-killers if we don't set them up to be so. [/QUOTE]
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