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Message: <blockquote data-quote="noretoc" data-source="post: 3793038" data-attributes="member: 1276">That could very well be the problem.  I have made a lot of allowances for him already.  Is the answer to keep letting it go, even though it make my job harder and isn't fair to the rest. The rest of the group dosen't really know how much it can ruin my day, when I have something cool set up, and I know if it going to be a great session with it (I have played with all for a while, so I know what they like) then I find out last minute he isn't going to make it.  It is such a huge letdown, it affact me for the whole game.  Then I am going through the game thinking three things.  1. how much cooler it could have been had I been able to do what I wanted.  2. I could have set something else up nice for one of the guys that is there, and I was dumb enought to spend the time on the one player instead (Which makes me feel bad for the player I could have done something neat for, even thought that player may not know) and 3. how can I make him wish he had been here.  Great loot, good xp that he wont get, etc (I know it isn't the right way to be, but I'm human too, and when slighted part of me wants vengence).  It just makes a bad day...</blockquote>