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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Afrodyte" data-source="post: 1015406" data-attributes="member: 8713">When I play rogues, I tend to prefer the more social rogues as well.  I really don't like playing the "thief" or the "trap disabler."  Had I been the player in that situation, I too would have been upset.  I would have been upset with the other players for holding me (the player) accountable for not playing the character they wanted me to play, and I would have been upset with you for docking me XP because I didn't play the character you wanted me to play.  I agree with the previous poster who said that if you want to fill a particular niche in the party, do it yourself instead of asking somebody else to sacrifice playing what they want.  From what I have read, only the rogue's player responded appropriately to the situation.  What person in their right mind would intentionally wander into a death trap knowing full well they are not equipped or knowledgable enough to deal with it?  What good character would force somebody into that situation?Really, I think the issue here is respect.  If you really want to solve the real problem in the game, you have to address that.  From what you've written so far, I seems clear you do not respect this person or his girlfriend.  I won't even begin telling you how you can fix that because I'm not familiar with the whole situation.  I do see, however, that if you want to prevent future hardship, you are going to have to be a bit more forthcoming with your feelings regarding this player.</blockquote>

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