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<blockquote data-quote="doghead" data-source="post: 4100570" data-attributes="member: 8243"><p>general - player can't get numbers</p><p></p><p>My advice would be 'take a deep breath and let it go.' Of course, its kind of easy for me to say because:</p><p></p><p>1) all those dinky little bonuses get on ... up my nose also and I wouldn't really care if people are ball-parking it, so long as no-one is trying to get an advantage and everyone is having fun, and</p><p></p><p>2) its easy to give advice.</p><p></p><p>It may not be making you unhappy, but feeling bad about how your response if affecting the other player is detracting from you enjoyment of the game to some degree.</p><p></p><p>If you do want to do something, I'd suggest something along the lines of Tallarn and roguerouge - tell her you enjoy gaming with her, admit that her difficulty with the numbers drives you to distraction, apologise for having been cranky and offer help if she wants it. If so, there are several approaches suggested here that you could try.</p><p></p><p>She may not take up your offer, but maybe just dealing with it will make you feel better, and more able to let it go.</p><p></p><p>doghead</p><p>aka thotd</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="doghead, post: 4100570, member: 8243"] general - player can't get numbers My advice would be 'take a deep breath and let it go.' Of course, its kind of easy for me to say because: 1) all those dinky little bonuses get on ... up my nose also and I wouldn't really care if people are ball-parking it, so long as no-one is trying to get an advantage and everyone is having fun, and 2) its easy to give advice. It may not be making you unhappy, but feeling bad about how your response if affecting the other player is detracting from you enjoyment of the game to some degree. If you do want to do something, I'd suggest something along the lines of Tallarn and roguerouge - tell her you enjoy gaming with her, admit that her difficulty with the numbers drives you to distraction, apologise for having been cranky and offer help if she wants it. If so, there are several approaches suggested here that you could try. She may not take up your offer, but maybe just dealing with it will make you feel better, and more able to let it go. doghead aka thotd [/QUOTE]
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