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<blockquote data-quote="Bryan Vining" data-source="post: 401309" data-attributes="member: 7628">A suggestionI think part of the problem here is that there does not appear to be an agreement between all of the members of the group with regard to how to handle controversial rulings.&nbsp; I suggest that the next time you all sit down at the table, you announce to the players that you wish to discuss rules challenges and that you are not comfortable with running again until you all agree on how you're going to handle rules challenges.&nbsp; If I'm reading you correctly, this is true.&nbsp; I also suggest that you have a a proposed agreement at the ready.&nbsp; That will give you&nbsp; a starting point.&nbsp; This is important:&nbsp; Make sure the players understand that they are expected to live by the agreement 100%.&nbsp; Decide what you will do if they do not live by the agreement and then, if they do not live up to it, do whatever you've planned on.&nbsp; You might, for example, refuse to DM for 6 months.&nbsp; Pick something that would make you feel good.&nbsp; Give that a try.&nbsp; Let us know how it goes.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Bryan Vining, post: 401309, member: 7628"] [b]A suggestion[/b] I think part of the problem here is that there does not appear to be an agreement between all of the members of the group with regard to how to handle controversial rulings. I suggest that the next time you all sit down at the table, you announce to the players that you wish to discuss rules challenges and that you are not comfortable with running again until you all agree on how you're going to handle rules challenges. If I'm reading you correctly, this is true. I also suggest that you have a a proposed agreement at the ready. That will give you a starting point. [B]This is important: [/B] Make sure the players understand that they are expected to live by the agreement 100%. Decide what you will do if they do not live by the agreement and then, if they do not live up to it, do whatever you've planned on. You might, for example, refuse to DM for 6 months. Pick something that would make you feel good. Give that a try. Let us know how it goes. [/QUOTE]

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