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<blockquote data-quote="Delta" data-source="post: 4579494" data-attributes="member: 40269">The following is given in the warmest sense of fellowship, from someone who has been there: You're being a wuss.&nbsp;The worst thing you can do is drop vague hints that you're &quot;considering&quot; dropping him as an option of &quot;last resort&quot;. Come on, that's directly telling him that you don't have the stones to boot him and he should feel free to walk all over you. You need to make up you're mind if you're booting him. If the answer is &quot;no&quot;, then keep your lip buttoned.&nbsp;I fire people from my band (or at least reject auditions) all the time. It was incredibly hard the first time! But everyone likes and respects me better after I fire them. Just did it this week, and I was partying with her a few days later on Saturday night, and she was deliriously happy to see me, all hugs and kisses.&nbsp;So boot him, improve your game, bulk up your self-respect. Yes you can.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Delta, post: 4579494, member: 40269"] The following is given in the warmest sense of fellowship, from someone who has been there: You're being a wuss. The worst thing you can do is drop vague hints that you're "considering" dropping him as an option of "last resort". Come on, that's directly telling him that you don't have the stones to boot him and he should feel free to walk all over you. You need to make up you're mind if you're booting him. If the answer is "no", then keep your lip buttoned. I fire people from my band (or at least reject auditions) all the time. It was incredibly hard the first time! But everyone likes and respects me [i]better[/i] after I fire them. Just did it this week, and I was partying with her a few days later on Saturday night, and she was deliriously happy to see me, all hugs and kisses. So boot him, improve your game, bulk up your self-respect. Yes you can. [/QUOTE]

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