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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Petrosian" data-source="post: 959474" data-attributes="member: 1149">I have as a general rule an easy going nature. When a player broaches a subject to me with the fact that they have decided they need to leave, I thank them, mention how i wished it was different and let them go. when a player broaches a problem with me by bringing it up and wanting to figure out how to handle it, with no "or i leave" hanging over the discussion, then i work with them and bend over backwards.if she had brought this up for discussion and solution before she reached the "i should leave" stage, then you should have worked with her. If she brought it up only once she had reached the " i should leave " stage, then let her go and speak kindly of her.*********************Xp and levels... in my games, xp is not earned and advancement is simply a means of showing progress. If your PC is away for a while, we assume he is doing things and he keeps pace. Then when you return you level up to match the party. you may even have acquired magic items.This is because having the gang at the same level makes things much easier for everybody and keeps all the characters on par with the threats. This is not a competition to grab more xp. A significantly weaker PC can very easily be untenable if the challenges are tough.So i do not make the occasional absebces or even the rare leaves of absence into a level issue. It seems to have worked well. But then, thats just our way of looking at it.</blockquote>

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