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[rant]The conservatism of D&D fans is exhausting.
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<blockquote data-quote="EzekielRaiden" data-source="post: 9709171" data-attributes="member: 6790260"><p>No.</p><p></p><p>People <em>jumped on my case</em> and told me I was some weirdo who couldn't trust anyone else (usually in the most condescending tone possible), even implying I couldn't form meaningful relationships with others, rather than lifting a finger to talk about how one would try to <em>fix</em> a problem with trust. I even gave a (constructed) example, and several people literally did just say, "Well...yeah. You literally just <em>have</em> to trust the GM, even when they're doing things that actually upset you, leaving you concerned that the GM is not GMing fairly." One poster, Lanefan, even went so far as saying that you couldn't even BEGIN to worry until you'd seen this sort of thing happen for many <em>months</em> first! Some even characterized the (constructed) <em>player</em> as the one in the wrong, with the (constructed) GM being absolutely blameless!</p><p></p><p>It was a hell of a lot more than "some people were wrong on the Internet." It was people outright telling me that no, I have to give functionally unlimited trust, and the <em>only</em> other option was "well then you obviously have a horrible GM and you should get out of there as fast as possible."</p><p></p><p>IIRC, only two people even attempted to seriously engage with it, and one of them still ended up on the side of "well...yeah I think the only options are to bug out or just Keep Trusting until it gets better."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="EzekielRaiden, post: 9709171, member: 6790260"] No. People [I]jumped on my case[/I] and told me I was some weirdo who couldn't trust anyone else (usually in the most condescending tone possible), even implying I couldn't form meaningful relationships with others, rather than lifting a finger to talk about how one would try to [I]fix[/I] a problem with trust. I even gave a (constructed) example, and several people literally did just say, "Well...yeah. You literally just [I]have[/I] to trust the GM, even when they're doing things that actually upset you, leaving you concerned that the GM is not GMing fairly." One poster, Lanefan, even went so far as saying that you couldn't even BEGIN to worry until you'd seen this sort of thing happen for many [I]months[/I] first! Some even characterized the (constructed) [I]player[/I] as the one in the wrong, with the (constructed) GM being absolutely blameless! It was a hell of a lot more than "some people were wrong on the Internet." It was people outright telling me that no, I have to give functionally unlimited trust, and the [I]only[/I] other option was "well then you obviously have a horrible GM and you should get out of there as fast as possible." IIRC, only two people even attempted to seriously engage with it, and one of them still ended up on the side of "well...yeah I think the only options are to bug out or just Keep Trusting until it gets better." [/QUOTE]
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