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Message: <blockquote data-quote="JediSoth" data-source="post: 6234543" data-attributes="member: 13882">My first wife had a bunch (a plethora, perhaps? Maybe a multitude?) of photos of a guy she was with when we met. They were photos of a particularly salacious nature, none of which were SFW and I think depicted acts which were certainly morally wrong, if not outright illegal in some states. When she died, I wiped them clean. I had neither the desire to use them, the desire to revisit them, nor the desire to keep that stuff around out of some odd sense of nostalgia. I knew she had them when we got married, but there were a lot of red flags I ignored in that relationship for reasons I cannot fathom at this time (probably had to do with my self-esteem and a sense of desperation...maybe I DID settle...). There were additional things I discovered a year after she died which really colored my perceptions of our entire time together and embittered me toward her, things that I won't talk about here, but suffice to say, they were of such a nature that had I known about them when we were dating, we would NOT have been dating. Even now, 5 years after her death, I can still work myself into a rage thinking about them. It sucks not being able to get closure, but I generally don't let it get to me. Were it not for that relationship, I wouldn't have met the woman to whom I am currently married, and even if I had a time machine, I'm not sure that's worth sacrificing.There was a woman I dated briefly (it was never exclusive and only  lasted 2-3 dates) after my wife's passing who said she had stuff on her ex- in case he decided  to be a jerk and she needed to put him in his place re: their kid. I  don't recall the exact nature of the incriminating evidence she had on  him. I broke things off later that week.</blockquote>

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