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Message: <blockquote data-quote="jasper" data-source="post: 7822201" data-attributes="member: 277">Hmm random commentsThe pizza ordering comment is Bull. Even back in 80s people who had food concerns generally brought their own, or got us on schedule where we made allowances. I have too many teeth marks on my squire chain gathered because cooks HAD to prep around 10+ food allegories. Now days bring your own food. I take that back, back in the 70s the old farts and sickly people brought their own dishes to the family gathering. Now I am old fart and have to cook around my spouse’s issues.X Card I had no problems with this at cons. You don’t know who you going to sit. I triggered a person even before I got to the x card speech. I have a bag of zombie figures which I give away as minis at cons. Poor kid threw up in the garbage can and then dash to the bathroom. I swapped out his mini with a zombie and he was comfortable with the rest of the group using their zombies. I did run other tables at the con and no one used the card.However the X Card at the local open table. We DMS have agreed to keep everything between PG and PG-13 and keep our players in line. We also tell people to talk with us if we are getting into a no go area. We want open communication from the involved player not the bystanders. I lost two players at my table. One I trashed talk the Air Force vet since I was an Army bet. Second a bystander was not happy with how a treated a couple. One who was transitioning.StacieGMGirl bravo bravo You summed up my problems with Consent in Gaming doc.Lanefan does bring up the problem with the wording around the X card. To be snarky how the beep do I as DM know that Lanefan is objecting to the spiders I describing or the off-hand comment I made about his sucky sports team. Maybe the wording around the x card needs to state something to the effect. “Touch the x card and give the dm a clue about what bother you.”Players with major issues In my xp come in three types. 1. People getting professional help. I had 3 in my homebrew over the years. One just forgave me when I step on the landmine topic. The other two got the message across to avoid those landmines. 2. Those who need help and were jerks because they needed help. One got help and was understanding if I threw out the verbal landmine. The others, I quit playing with and it did filter back to me they needed help. 3. Have issues, using the issue to be a jerk. I was jerk to this person thinking they were just a jerk. When I discover they had issues I was still a jerk because they not only been an beeping jerk at the house, they had damage my other personal hobby equipment and used their issue not to pay for the repair.</blockquote>

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