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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Phion" data-source="post: 7824727" data-attributes="member: 6917357">Okay you see we have something to work with here, I have put comments in bold and a number to make it easier to bounce between points.1.) You have told us what makes you uncomfortable, essentially your bleed. The group seem to not have an issue with it (I too find romance at the table distasteful).2.) YOU decided you could deal with it. You were not forced. You knew what was making you uncomfortable with as shown in 1.). You of your own understanding of self thought you could get through it. Like a website or any content you click the "I agree" terms and conditions, you have consented to this.3) "session after session". The group has made it clear that this is for better or worse what they do in their game. Whenever you show up to that table you are consenting to it like 2.). You knew that you were getting upset numerous times during sessions and yet like a moth to the flame you kept returning.4) Taking the first 3 points to face value that is on you friend. You kept coming back to your trigger and as a consequence you caused that which you wanted to avoid. At no point you stated your group made it clear that a "good player" to them is one that just gets on with it. I am sure they would have respected you leaving the group more because their genre of play was not to your tastes instead of the alternative of you causing mass "bleed" because of you ignoring the first 3 points.5.) And this is what the detractors dislike. If the detractors are selfish for not wanting the card to keep the play raw and true to their vision, then supporters are irresponsible for not wanting to take true ownership of their own actions with the context you provided.6.) Incorrect. 1.) Shows romance was your trigger, 2.) shows YOU mentally decided you could manage and 3.) shows that historically your triggers were not going away.7.) Tapping an X card is still revealing your anxiety, the group will not be blind to you tapping your card ergo they will still know you are anxious about something. Its just been expressed very inefficiently. " You keep tapping the X. Why? We are doing what we have done from the start, what is different now? (they thought in their heads because apparently they can not even truly state how they feel (do you not think this will cause bleed as negative feeling well up in frustration due to 1 player who will not express themselves openly?))8) By this point no model set up by a corporation is going to stop a human passively psychoanalyze To deny the why is to deny the humanity.</blockquote>

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