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Message: <blockquote data-quote="GilMan21" data-source="post: 7829871" data-attributes="member: 56330">Excerpt from the newsletter <a href="https://signup.burnthetaverndown.com/" target="_blank">Burn the Tavern Down.</a> This is What We are Here ForI had a request to talk about problem gamers. And I started doing some legwork and research on problem gamers and I have to say wow there is a lot of content out there.One thing I found missing is a nice Session Zero about the expectations of the game.During a Session Zero, I not only help people make characters, but I do the following:Tell About What the World is LikeI explain a bit about the world:<ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">How are different races/classes treated.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Different regions in the area. (Some people get more info than others based on skills.)</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">What's the level of magic: are there are ton of potions or are they common.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">What's the most common threat in the area.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Local religions.</li> </ul>You get the idea. I want them going in knowing just some starter information. Maybe I have handouts. A PDF. If I'm feeling frisky, I'll shoot them some audio and ship it to their phones. Maybe stuff only they know.Figure Out How Often We PlayHave a discussion on the times you are going to play. Weekly? Monthly? What happens if you don't show up? I had a player that would tell me a couple of hours before the game that he wasn't showing: constantly.I get it; your kid gets sick or a comet hits your garage— totally get it. But he'd be out of town at a wedding.So I just had a "let's all look at your calendars meetings" and figure it out and get it on the calendar. You can do invitations on your iPhone's calendar and people can accept.But if you let me know three hours before and you knew . . .not cool. I pulled him aside and said, "Hey, I'm not sure you're understanding the work I'm putting in. It'd be respectful if you let me know ahead of time in the chat, at least three days before." He was cool with that; he honestly didn't know how his absence affected the game.And you might have an "off month" where maybe December you don't play because there are a million holiday functions. Or you have just board game nights or smaller side quest missions. (Stagnant games tend to die a quick death.)Never leave a game without knowing the next date. Err on the side of doing that before play starts. Not after. NOT AFTER.Discuss Why Are We HereI ask this question: What kind of game do you want to have?<ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Gritty.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Unmerciful.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Political.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Action.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Thriller.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Combat heavy.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Role-playing heavy.</li> </ul>We get people to talk about the game they want to have so we can have it together. For me, I don't do silly, goofy games. You aren't naming your fighter Strongman Strongpants. Things can be funny in game, but speaking as someone who was in a circus for a year, I'm not one to just be a goof or a clown.If you want to name your character, Bonehead McGee in Fortnite, be my guest. We are getting together to tell a story. Maybe it's a teenage superhero story or maybe it's a something super gritty like <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1524851663/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=burnthetavern-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=1524851663&linkId=4eccdd74163fade8cf48702cc69b7f69" target="_blank">Zweihandler</a> (which is 50% off. . . which is crazy right now. the book is massive.) But it's a story and as the storyteller—I just don't want to get mocked.If we agree that we are here to tell a heroic story, one our characters might not survive, life and death at the ready, then we will have a fun night. Oh, your rogue wants to kill everything that walks including innocents because that's what she'd do? Take a walk.One tenet to tell your players is: all I want is you to do your best to move the story forward. Your story. Your fellow character's story. The overarching story. Don't impede the story or strangle it. This isn't a GM vs. Player thing. We are in it to tell a story.And I've been playing RPGs a long time and there is this thing that happens, this tapestry that gets woven over time. When the character saves the day, when all is lost and then somehow the dice falls where they need to land, the monster is slain, the Duke is rescued, and you know that RPGs fall under something ethereally wonderful.Go for that.</blockquote>

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