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<blockquote data-quote="Rl'Halsinor" data-source="post: 1580254" data-attributes="member: 19772">I have to agree with Savage Wombat that she was living vicariously through her &quot;pet.&quot;&nbsp; And for her it seems to be an ongoing issue and repeating behavior says something.&nbsp; You talked to her on numerous occasions but to no avail; well then it sometimes takes drastic actions to get your point across -- which you obviously did! (I got to admit, I was amused by how you handled it)&nbsp; I have been playing and DMing for 25 years and there always seems to be one or two people who never seem to grasp what you are trying to say.&nbsp; This can be very frustrating. I also agree with those who say it now has become personal and some mending of relationship will need to take place.&nbsp; I strongly suggest that you talk to her one on one and eventually ask her why she did not hear what you were trying to say.&nbsp; I would also recommend that the other players speak to her as well because it was a group action even though you led it.&nbsp; Of course, that is up to the other players.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Rl'Halsinor, post: 1580254, member: 19772"] I have to agree with Savage Wombat that she was living vicariously through her "pet." And for her it seems to be an ongoing issue and repeating behavior says something. You talked to her on numerous occasions but to no avail; well then it sometimes takes drastic actions to get your point across -- which you obviously did! (I got to admit, I was amused by how you handled it) I have been playing and DMing for 25 years and there always seems to be one or two people who never seem to grasp what you are trying to say. This can be very frustrating. I also agree with those who say it now has become personal and some mending of relationship will need to take place. I strongly suggest that you talk to her one on one and eventually ask her why she did not hear what you were trying to say. I would also recommend that the other players speak to her as well because it was a group action even though you led it. Of course, that is up to the other players. [/QUOTE]

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