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<blockquote data-quote="drnuncheon" data-source="post: 671105" data-attributes="member: 96">Well, also posted by you, and much more recently:&quot;But you're saying you don't believe the DM on this score, right?&nbsp; That other players could miss sessions and you couldn't?&nbsp; So what's the difference?&quot;&nbsp; &quot;But I know that you're engaging in behaviors that I'd find inappropriate were I running the game, so I'm guessing that that's the basis for his problem.&quot;&quot;I'm inclined to believe that you ran up against some very reasonable expectations of behavior in civil, respectful company.&quot;&quot;That means you must have been doing something -- something you're not admitting, to yourself or to us -- that was above and beyond what the other players were doing.&quot;From everything DC has said, it doesn't sound like his actions are out of line with those of the other players.&nbsp; Are the Warlord players paying attention to the game when they're chatting about their CCG?&nbsp; Does the DM show any signs that ditching a session is bad when other players do it?If the answer to both of those is 'no' - which it seems to be - then how can DC be at fault?&nbsp; If you never tell someone the unwritten rules, and you never punish other people for breaking them, how do you expect that person to learn those rules?All through this thread you've been saying &quot;The GM handled it poorly but it's your fault for making him handle it at all.&quot;&nbsp; That's what I was referring to in the post that confused you.J</blockquote>

[QUOTE="drnuncheon, post: 671105, member: 96"] Well, also posted by you, and much more recently: "But you're saying you don't believe the DM on this score, right? That other players could miss sessions and you couldn't? So what's the difference?" "But I know that you're engaging in behaviors that I'd find inappropriate were I running the game, so I'm guessing that that's the basis for his problem." "I'm inclined to believe that you ran up against some very reasonable expectations of behavior in civil, respectful company." "That means you must have been doing something -- something you're not admitting, to yourself or to us -- that was above and beyond what the other players were doing." From everything DC has said, it doesn't sound like his actions are out of line with those of the other players. Are the Warlord players paying attention to the game when they're chatting about their CCG? Does the DM show any signs that ditching a session is bad when other players do it? If the answer to both of those is 'no' - which it seems to be - then how can DC be at fault? If you never tell someone the unwritten rules, and you never punish other people for breaking them, how do you expect that person to learn those rules? All through this thread you've been saying "The GM handled it poorly but it's your fault for making him handle it at all." That's what I was referring to in the post that confused you. J [/QUOTE]

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