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<blockquote data-quote="tburdett" data-source="post: 675736" data-attributes="member: 4714">If you read the first message in this thread you will find ...&quot;Well a week later I decide I'd like to spend a quiet evening at home for a change and call up the group to tell them I wont be there tonight.&quot;He didn't call in advance, he called to let them know that he wouldn't be there THAT NIGHT.&nbsp; You may consider calling the same day, or an hour beforehand, an act of consideration, I DON'T.&nbsp; At that point it is to late to change any plans that have been made.If there had been an emergency or other UNAVOIDABLE situation I would be extremely understanding and feel sympathetic towards the player.&nbsp; There was no emergency, he just decided at the last minute that he didn't want to go.&nbsp; Selfish and inconsiderate.I'm starting to wonder if the people who are defending him are doing so because they identify with, and engage in, similar inconsiderate behaviors?</blockquote>

[QUOTE="tburdett, post: 675736, member: 4714"] If you read the first message in this thread you will find ... "Well a week later I decide I'd like to spend a quiet evening at home for a change and call up the group to tell them I wont be there tonight." He didn't call in advance, he called to let them know that he wouldn't be there THAT NIGHT. You may consider calling the same day, or an hour beforehand, an act of consideration, I DON'T. At that point it is to late to change any plans that have been made. If there had been an emergency or other UNAVOIDABLE situation I would be extremely understanding and feel sympathetic towards the player. There was no emergency, he just decided at the last minute that he didn't want to go. Selfish and inconsiderate. I'm starting to wonder if the people who are defending him are doing so because they identify with, and engage in, similar inconsiderate behaviors? [/QUOTE]

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