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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Wik" data-source="post: 5101625" data-attributes="member: 40177">Dude, lame.  Super lame, in fact.  Especially over Valentine's Day weekend!  Geez.  Talk about bad timing.as for the "just be friends" thing, I say, no - cut them out of your life, at least for a while.  I don't see my ex more than once a month, if that - and it's usually a quick little "how are you?" and leave it at that.  You can't "just be friends", it just doesn't work.  My were never really nightmares - just having her randomly pop up and saying something.  The funny thing being that she was very rarely in my dreams when we were together.  I guess you just have to grin and bear it, though.  And yeah, sleepless nights are going to follow for a while.  As for me, I found out that my insomnia hadn't just gone away five years ago - having someone sleeping beside me just helped keep it at bay.  Now that I'm single again, my insomnia has come back.  In force.  Lovely, eh?Still, all the negatives included, I think in the end these things wind up being good for us.  Why suffer through a crappy relationship, right?  And it's always better to have the unpleasant times happen sooner, rather than later.  For me, I'd rather have my ex walk out on me (and wind up with another guy a month or so later!) than have the same thing happen after being married.  Sid, it's better to lose her now than after a year or so of Marriage.  And Clever, better to happen while you're relatively young, right?  Course, I'm a glass half full sorta fellow.  <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile    :)"  data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

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