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<blockquote data-quote="BlackSilver" data-source="post: 2651995" data-attributes="member: 22250">We try to avoid tossing people out of our group.&nbsp; The problems we have had has all been from one Player-- He thought that insults were fun to throw about, even when asked multiple times to stop they continued.- He thought we had a maid.&nbsp; He would not take care of his soda cans, cups, plates, or anything else.&nbsp; He would fix himself a cup of chili or soup (which he brought)- pour the can into a bowl and place it in the microwave to heat without covering it.&nbsp; Big mess.&nbsp; The worst part of that was his bathroom aim- very poor.- Barrowing books when his is just an arms reach away.- Parking so no one else could park.&nbsp; His car leaked oil too.Finally, at my wits end with him it came to the groups attention that I was done with the group because of him.&nbsp; They rallied to me, and he found out that my requests meant that I wanted him to be more aware of others.&nbsp; He begged to stay, said he would change.&nbsp; The group said- &quot;bye-bye,&quot; and I said &quot;wait.&quot;He got three chances to clean up his act or get out.&nbsp; Nearly two years later he has one chance left and is one of the most considerate people I know (he stays after to clean up, and treats people with more respect).We have been really lucky to have such a great group.&nbsp; Though we have had a few &quot;my cousins in town for the weekend and wants to join us,&quot; situtations that we have not been happy with.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="BlackSilver, post: 2651995, member: 22250"] We try to avoid tossing people out of our group. The problems we have had has all been from one Player- - He thought that insults were fun to throw about, even when asked multiple times to stop they continued. - He thought we had a maid. He would not take care of his soda cans, cups, plates, or anything else. He would fix himself a cup of chili or soup (which he brought)- pour the can into a bowl and place it in the microwave to heat without covering it. Big mess. The worst part of that was his bathroom aim- very poor. - Barrowing books when his is just an arms reach away. - Parking so no one else could park. His car leaked oil too. Finally, at my wits end with him it came to the groups attention that I was done with the group because of him. They rallied to me, and he found out that my requests meant that I wanted him to be more aware of others. He begged to stay, said he would change. The group said- "bye-bye," and I said "wait." He got three chances to clean up his act or get out. Nearly two years later he has one chance left and is one of the most considerate people I know (he stays after to clean up, and treats people with more respect). We have been really lucky to have such a great group. Though we have had a few "my cousins in town for the weekend and wants to join us," situtations that we have not been happy with. [/QUOTE]

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