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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Umbran" data-source="post: 9684569" data-attributes="member: 177">Avoidance does not resolve issues.If the group is not mature enough to handle conflicts with out-of-game discussions like mature adults, then immature blow-ups are the likely result. It pays to know what you really want to get out of the discussion before you go in - and "but my character would..." needs to not be part of the conversation.What did the players really want?  Presumably, that this romance wouldn't lead to people not involved in the romance getting stabbed in the back by the NPC brought into the PCs' vulnerable space.  If you could have asked the GM for assurance of that, the rest didn't need to happen.</blockquote>