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<blockquote data-quote="Rune" data-source="post: 8392483" data-attributes="member: 67"><p>That is an impossible bar to meet for someone who doesn’t have any way of knowing you might be about to spoil something, especially in a conversation that was not previously talking about that particular something. Which is to say, without any kind of warning. </p><p></p><p>Is your solution that simply not read anything you say, just to be safe? How would they know to avoid you before the initial damage is done?</p><p></p><p>As I pointed out previously, your stance is an assertion of dominance over the situationally powerless. That <em>you</em> have no problem with it, doesn’t change that fact. </p><p></p><p>But I’m not asking you to recognize <em>why</em> your stance is harmful. I’m just <em>hoping</em> you will respect the autonomy of the people who would be so harmed before you rob them of the chance to ignore you. Instead of blaming them for failing to meet an impossible bar that you have preemptively set for them (impossible because it relies on the reader having knowledge that they can’t already have).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rune, post: 8392483, member: 67"] That is an impossible bar to meet for someone who doesn’t have any way of knowing you might be about to spoil something, especially in a conversation that was not previously talking about that particular something. Which is to say, without any kind of warning. Is your solution that simply not read anything you say, just to be safe? How would they know to avoid you before the initial damage is done? As I pointed out previously, your stance is an assertion of dominance over the situationally powerless. That [I]you[/I] have no problem with it, doesn’t change that fact. But I’m not asking you to recognize [I]why[/I] your stance is harmful. I’m just [I]hoping[/I] you will respect the autonomy of the people who would be so harmed before you rob them of the chance to ignore you. Instead of blaming them for failing to meet an impossible bar that you have preemptively set for them (impossible because it relies on the reader having knowledge that they can’t already have). [/QUOTE]
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