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<blockquote data-quote="Scott Christian" data-source="post: 8252269" data-attributes="member: 6901101"><p>I definitely think there are puzzle pieces that just don't fit. The dating analogy is solid. But, much like a first date, it can be deceiving. You might have an awkward time, but then it becomes more natural or vice-a-versa.</p><p></p><p>I can say it is not worth anyone's time to stay where you are uncomfortable. Just finish the session and tell them that it's not the right fit. That said, if anyone is not uncomfortable, and the table plays <em>differently</em> than what you are used to, I would encourage anyone to stick it out for awhile. Things can grow on a person.</p><p></p><p>I have said it a million times on this forum, but I have almost always had good experiences. I feel very lucky after reading some horror stories - particularly the Smith Family above. That said, there were instances I played one session with people, then never returned. But that was because they weren't my cup of tea, not because they were crazy.</p><p></p><p>Now, you want to talk conventions! <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f609.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" data-smilie="2"data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scott Christian, post: 8252269, member: 6901101"] I definitely think there are puzzle pieces that just don't fit. The dating analogy is solid. But, much like a first date, it can be deceiving. You might have an awkward time, but then it becomes more natural or vice-a-versa. I can say it is not worth anyone's time to stay where you are uncomfortable. Just finish the session and tell them that it's not the right fit. That said, if anyone is not uncomfortable, and the table plays [I]differently[/I] than what you are used to, I would encourage anyone to stick it out for awhile. Things can grow on a person. I have said it a million times on this forum, but I have almost always had good experiences. I feel very lucky after reading some horror stories - particularly the Smith Family above. That said, there were instances I played one session with people, then never returned. But that was because they weren't my cup of tea, not because they were crazy. Now, you want to talk conventions! ;) [/QUOTE]
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