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<blockquote data-quote="rose4100" data-source="post: 3246472" data-attributes="member: 46283">ok ok, i guess i deserved that without explaining it. I find boyfriend/girlfriend and husband/wife combo's don't work. I make this statement based on three groups that i played with. Sometimes its the guy who is at fault and sometimes the woman but either way it seems to me that couples just CAN NOT leave the relationship out of the game. For example with our DM (ex-DM now)... Every time his wife felt something was unfair (which in fact was fair) she would start complaining and whining about it for the rest of the night and very emotional arguments erupted from this (while the rest of us was sitting around the coffee table). I blame it on two things. First: she was playing a Bard and did not understand that the Bard isn't an unstoppable, able to make everyone believe them, rule the universe kind of class ; Second: she expected that since she was sleeping with the DM that she was entitled to the most powerful/valuable items the party found.The second reason is the main one with all three groups that i've played in. I'm sorry if this offends some men, women or couples in general but that is my opinion. I do admit that some couples can make it work but they are rare.Anyway... thats my rant...P.S. - my girlfriend is a very avid roleplayer, she's on enworld actually. So all that accuse'd crap of 'women not allowed to play', i'll tell you where you can stick that if you push it any further.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="rose4100, post: 3246472, member: 46283"] ok ok, i guess i deserved that without explaining it. I find boyfriend/girlfriend and husband/wife combo's don't work. I make this statement based on three groups that i played with. Sometimes its the guy who is at fault and sometimes the woman but either way it seems to me that couples just CAN NOT leave the relationship out of the game. For example with our DM (ex-DM now)... Every time his wife felt something was unfair (which in fact was fair) she would start complaining and whining about it for the rest of the night and very emotional arguments erupted from this (while the rest of us was sitting around the coffee table). I blame it on two things. First: she was playing a Bard and did not understand that the Bard isn't an unstoppable, able to make everyone believe them, rule the universe kind of class ; Second: she expected that since she was sleeping with the DM that she was entitled to the most powerful/valuable items the party found. The second reason is the main one with all three groups that i've played in. I'm sorry if this offends some men, women or couples in general but that is my opinion. I do admit that some couples can make it work but they are rare. Anyway... thats my rant... P.S. - my girlfriend is a very avid roleplayer, she's on enworld actually. So all that accuse'd crap of 'women not allowed to play', i'll tell you where you can stick that if you push it any further. [/QUOTE]

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