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Message: <blockquote data-quote="HammerMan" data-source="post: 8526873" data-attributes="member: 84112">if I wasn't worring about them I would have booked my honey moon a month ago.I don't know about this but since the culture merged before i was born (and I am old) I don't understand what to do to do the right thing.I am trying to understand... and again when I was told to research it, and I did, I found as many people are saying they NEED tourism as say they NEED it to stop, and that the amount that don't like it is less than those that do like it. So again... how do I act responsibly? Do I go with the majority? Do I go with what is best for me(especially since my fiancé doesn't give a rats but about what the locals want)? Do I go with the loudest? I normally try to let my heart be my guide... but in the last 5ish years I have repeatedly been called a bad person for doing what I think is right. SO now I am gun shy. Am I a bad person? Am I going to cause harm if I don't go to a state I have never been to but want to? Am I going to cause harm if I do go to a state I have never been to but want to? What do I do if the answer is YES to both do harm?</blockquote>