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<blockquote data-quote="WayneLigon" data-source="post: 2379280" data-attributes="member: 3649">I'd still suggest counselling, and a counsellor that is not involved in whatever kind of church has a 'prophetess' in it. Sound like there was indeed some tension there to begin with, but with that last statement I quoted, I wonder... is that your wife saying that, or her mother? Or her mother through your wife? Sound like the mother is a source of stress between y'all?&nbsp;I don't know the people involved or the situations, but the insistance on speed is.. kinda disturbing to me in a way I can't really explain. It sounds like this is a 'we've grown apart, no contest' type of thing, in which case the insistance on speed is a little strange, at least to me. It sounds like she's been thinking about this for awhile and has already drafted a plan. Or had one drafted for her.&nbsp;Since there is a child involved, one thing you might want to make clear. Um, not really sure how to say this, but it kinda sounds like your wife is getting pretty deep into a charismatic, um, cult. If you've not been to this church and don't know what goes on there, I'd find out damn quick if I were you. I'm just saying, is all. Could be and probably is all perfectly normal and they're nice people. That have prophetesses. &nbsp;You are obviously distraught and overcome right now. Hopefully things will seem a bit more... organized in the morning.&nbsp;Two words: professional counselling.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="WayneLigon, post: 2379280, member: 3649"] I'd still suggest counselling, and a counsellor that is not involved in whatever kind of church has a 'prophetess' in it. Sound like there was indeed some tension there to begin with, but with that last statement I quoted, I wonder... is that your wife saying that, or her mother? Or her mother through your wife? Sound like the mother is a source of stress between y'all? I don't know the people involved or the situations, but the insistance on speed is.. kinda disturbing to me in a way I can't really explain. It sounds like this is a 'we've grown apart, no contest' type of thing, in which case the insistance on speed is a little strange, at least to me. It sounds like she's been thinking about this for awhile and has already drafted a plan. Or had one drafted for her. Since there is a child involved, one thing you might want to make clear. Um, not really sure how to say this, but it kinda sounds like your wife is getting pretty deep into a charismatic, um, cult. If you've not been to this church and don't know what goes on there, I'd find out damn quick if I were you. I'm just saying, is all. Could be and probably is all perfectly normal and they're nice people. That have prophetesses. You are obviously distraught and overcome right now. Hopefully things will seem a bit more... organized in the morning. Two words: professional counselling. [/QUOTE]

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