Upgrade your account to a Community Supporter account and remove most of the site ads.
Enchanted Trinkets Complete--a hardcover book containing over 500 magic items for your D&D games!

Reply to thread

Message: <blockquote data-quote="Chimera" data-source="post: 2384143" data-attributes="member: 2002">13.5 months off the finalization of my bitter and extremely nasty divorce process, I can attest to this in spades.  My ex-wife was and is on SSDI (Social Security Disability Income) for Mental Illness.  I was hit with the firehose of false claims of physical and emotional abuse.  She claimed that I was defrauding her financially and that I was trying to steal her house.  Never mind that my house had been sold and half the profits used to pay off her massive debts (that she'd lied about before we got married).Lawyer up.  NOW(And on that score, don't be afraid to fire your lawyer and get another if you're not satisfied with their work or with your working relationship with them.  I wish I'd done that.)Document everything possible.  Clear out any account that you have access to and put it elsewhere.  Get your paws on any and every item that could concievably be called yours and put it somewhere she can't get to.  Possession in these cases is worth more than 100 claims of property rights.And like others said, buck up.  Looks nasty now and it sure will be painful.  But as the process goes on, you will realize the positive side of things even amid the pain and accusations.  A good part of that for me was self-discovery.  Learning how much I had compromised myself and sacrificed myself for someone who was, in the end of all things, only using me.  Learning how I could be a better person for myself and for others by not decreasing myself in that manner.Why do we fall?So we can learn how to get back up.</blockquote>

Verification