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<blockquote data-quote="Ashrum the Black" data-source="post: 976692" data-attributes="member: 1585">A little more information on the group may help us understand the dynamics here. That being said, I'd have to say that if the whole group also feels this way then you all should sit down and discuss this. I'm assuming you're all friends and that you all want to remain so. From personal experience I can say that it is always better to get these things out now before the fester into something larger and nastier. As a group talk to the person, explain how this is affecting your enjoyment and how you're percieving their actions. Expect that this individual may have some complaints of their own as well. Perhaps the campaign isn't combat heavy enough for them, or roleplaying heavy so they're making up some action or drama to fill that void. Both of you will need to be prapared to make some changes.Now, this may not be the case at all. This person may be just trying to have some fun at the newbies expence. Or they just may have a different roleplaying style all together. If either of these is the case than it may be time to have the talk about this individual finding a group that plays more to their style. Never an easy conversation, but always better if it's done before there are hurt feelings on anybody's side. Above all, come at the conversation as friends, and adults. Oh and one peice of advice for the DM. I'd nic the whole aloowing evil PC's thing. It just tends to cause problems with party infighting. Especially for a group that sounds newer to gaming. Heck I've been playing for 20 years and I still don't do evil PC's. If I want the agnst and drama of a bad PC, I'll go play a white wolf product. Just my two CP.&nbsp;Sorry about the length of the reply.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Ashrum the Black, post: 976692, member: 1585"] A little more information on the group may help us understand the dynamics here. That being said, I'd have to say that if the whole group also feels this way then you all should sit down and discuss this. I'm assuming you're all friends and that you all want to remain so. From personal experience I can say that it is always better to get these things out now before the fester into something larger and nastier. As a group talk to the person, explain how this is affecting your enjoyment and how you're percieving their actions. Expect that this individual may have some complaints of their own as well. Perhaps the campaign isn't combat heavy enough for them, or roleplaying heavy so they're making up some action or drama to fill that void. Both of you will need to be prapared to make some changes. Now, this may not be the case at all. This person may be just trying to have some fun at the newbies expence. Or they just may have a different roleplaying style all together. If either of these is the case than it may be time to have the talk about this individual finding a group that plays more to their style. Never an easy conversation, but always better if it's done before there are hurt feelings on anybody's side. Above all, come at the conversation as friends, and adults. Oh and one peice of advice for the DM. I'd nic the whole aloowing evil PC's thing. It just tends to cause problems with party infighting. Especially for a group that sounds newer to gaming. Heck I've been playing for 20 years and I still don't do evil PC's. If I want the agnst and drama of a bad PC, I'll go play a white wolf product. Just my two CP. Sorry about the length of the reply. [/QUOTE]

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