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<blockquote data-quote="Rel" data-source="post: 1490540" data-attributes="member: 99">Let me just say this:&nbsp; People who dump you from a group, in the manner you describe, were not your friends.&nbsp; If a friend has a problem with you and if they are truly your friend then they will do one of two things.&nbsp; They will either decide that whatever little annoying habits you have (and of course you have them - so does everybody) are a price they pay for being your friend and that you are worth it, or they will decide that the price is too high.&nbsp; IF they decide these annoyances are too much for them to bear, then a true friend will talk to you openly and honestly about them.I'll add that I've gotten to meet a lot of ENWorlders thanks to the NC Game Days and, without exception, they have been nice, enjoyable people to game with.&nbsp; If we got to see each other more often, I think many of them would rapidly start to move into the territory of &quot;friends&quot;.&nbsp; If you can find folks here to game with, you'll probably be off to a good start.And I hope you will give people a chance to be good to you.&nbsp; Because the price of shutting yourself off from potential friends is invariably higher than the cost of putting yourself out there and occasionally getting burned.&quot;The next best thing to playing and winning is playing and losing.&quot;</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Rel, post: 1490540, member: 99"] Let me just say this: People who dump you from a group, in the manner you describe, were not your friends. If a friend has a problem with you and if they are truly your friend then they will do one of two things. They will either decide that whatever little annoying habits you have (and of course you have them - so does everybody) are a price they pay for being your friend and that you are worth it, or they will decide that the price is too high. IF they decide these annoyances are too much for them to bear, then a true friend will talk to you openly and honestly about them. I'll add that I've gotten to meet a lot of ENWorlders thanks to the NC Game Days and, without exception, they have been nice, enjoyable people to game with. If we got to see each other more often, I think many of them would rapidly start to move into the territory of "friends". If you can find folks here to game with, you'll probably be off to a good start. And I hope you will give people a chance to be good to you. Because the price of shutting yourself off from potential friends is invariably higher than the cost of putting yourself out there and occasionally getting burned. "The next best thing to playing and winning is playing and losing." [/QUOTE]

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