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<blockquote data-quote="Merkuri" data-source="post: 3031557" data-attributes="member: 41321">This might be the type of thing she needs to figure out for herself.&nbsp; She might have time to realize what she's doing when he's gone.&nbsp; If you seriously think she will not be happy in this marriage, tell her.&nbsp; Let her know that you see how unhappy she is with this guy.If she feels the need to tie this guy to her through marriage because she feels he'll be unfaithful otherwise or that they'll grow apart while he's away, then marriage is NOT what she needs to be thinking about.&nbsp; If you have to find a way to make a person be with you then that relationship is not meant to be.&nbsp; I'm probably preaching to the choir, though.&nbsp; I don't think me talking to her will change her mind, but feel free to point my posts out to her or send them to her in another manner.&nbsp; She needs to figure out that a bad relationship is worse than no relationship at all, but whether she finds that out the hard way or the easy way is up to her.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Merkuri, post: 3031557, member: 41321"] This might be the type of thing she needs to figure out for herself. She might have time to realize what she's doing when he's gone. If you seriously think she will not be happy in this marriage, tell her. Let her know that you see how unhappy she is with this guy. If she feels the need to tie this guy to her through marriage because she feels he'll be unfaithful otherwise or that they'll grow apart while he's away, then marriage is NOT what she needs to be thinking about. If you have to find a way to make a person be with you then that relationship is not meant to be. I'm probably preaching to the choir, though. I don't think me talking to her will change her mind, but feel free to point my posts out to her or send them to her in another manner. She needs to figure out that a bad relationship is worse than no relationship at all, but whether she finds that out the hard way or the easy way is up to her. [/QUOTE]

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