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<blockquote data-quote="Arravis" data-source="post: 308996" data-attributes="member: 327">Everyone is an individual, physiology plays different roles in different people depending on their own circumstance. But there are clear and obvious tendencies. If you choose not to see them, that's your concern.People are extremely complex, you can never truly understand someone. To claim to do so insults them, I feel. Everyone is complicated, but the closer they are to your own experience and situation, the more of them you understand you are likely to understand. It's easier for me to understand the behavior of a computer-geek guy gamer then the behavior of a mountaineering catholic priest. My life experience and situtation are alot closer to the gamer-geek and therefor I can closer relate and understand situations he's likely to find himself in. I can guess how the mountaineering catholic priest feels and lives his life, but it's only a guess not based on any real experience. In the end, since it's just a guess, it's a basic coin toss.I don't have breasts or a vagina, I don't produce large amounts of estrogen, I can't give birth or have all the social pressures and issues that women have. I can only guess at those things. Thus, it's really a coin toss. I try not to simplify people by pretending I understand them. I love my girlfriend for all the wonderful complicated things she does, not because I always understand them. I try to understand them, always, but in the end, it's just a guess.I think on this issue we simply have to agree to disagree. I suspect you don't understand where I'm coming from, nor I you. <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f609.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=";)" title="Wink&nbsp; &nbsp; ;)"&nbsp; data-smilie="2"data-shortname=";)" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="Arravis, post: 308996, member: 327"] Everyone is an individual, physiology plays different roles in different people depending on their own circumstance. But there are clear and obvious tendencies. If you choose not to see them, that's your concern. People are extremely complex, you can never truly understand someone. To claim to do so insults them, I feel. Everyone is complicated, but the closer they are to your own experience and situation, the more of them you understand you are likely to understand. It's easier for me to understand the behavior of a computer-geek guy gamer then the behavior of a mountaineering catholic priest. My life experience and situtation are alot closer to the gamer-geek and therefor I can closer relate and understand situations he's likely to find himself in. I can guess how the mountaineering catholic priest feels and lives his life, but it's only a guess not based on any real experience. In the end, since it's just a guess, it's a basic coin toss. I don't have breasts or a vagina, I don't produce large amounts of estrogen, I can't give birth or have all the social pressures and issues that women have. I can only guess at those things. Thus, it's really a coin toss. I try not to simplify people by pretending I understand them. I love my girlfriend for all the wonderful complicated things she does, not because I always understand them. I try to understand them, always, but in the end, it's just a guess. I think on this issue we simply have to agree to disagree. I suspect you don't understand where I'm coming from, nor I you. ;) [/QUOTE]

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