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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Harmon" data-source="post: 3682935" data-attributes="member: 24357">Something I thought of this morning-Camera- I think Aurora touched on this, but a camera, is a must while in the hospital.  I went through two disposables during our ten days, only about twenty shots came out, but they are prized.Get your car seat now.  Our daughter (Bug for purposes of EN) was five weeks preme, and we had to call the In Laws to pick it up then pay them a transportation fee to get it for us (course you more then likely will have better relatives then we have).  Go to your local police and ask them for help installing it (so it's legal).  I was pulled over a while back, because the officer wanted to check the car see (three "Baby On Board" signs on the car, I wonder how he knew  :\ ).  It just so happened that that officer was the one that had helped my wife put it in, best experience I have had with a cop in a long time.Should your wife have the issues that my wife had with milk production, give her support, she will take it personally, and she will be rough on herself.Do not have anyone live with you in the first few months, no matter how great your relationship.Get Infant 411, and the First Year Book, both are invaluable resources to us, its just a good piece of mind to know that we can look things up that we aren't sure about (first and only child, after ten years of trying).Get a good Baby Monitor (I like our Evenflo).Do not fuss over every noise, and do not get the little one up with every whimper.Good luck, hope all goes well and you get a perfect angel.    <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f600.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":D" title="Big grin    :D"  data-smilie="8"data-shortname=":D" /> <Hijack>My wife works and only has about two hours a day with Bug due to her schedule.  When the wife (Le for purposes of EN) comes home she wants play, feed, change, and do all the things she can, she never pushes, she just steps in and does them, trying to get that connection going.  She likes to give Bug a bottle and sit with her before bed time, but Bug usually ends up hitting her mom, slaps in a downward, that don't hurt, just aren't kind.  This has been going on for a long time (she's 19 months).  Le puts her to bed, some times in tears, sometimes angry ("I just want to sit with her like you do.").  Ya, Bug will sit with me, and sleep on my chest but not Le's.  There is no violence in our house, and we try to avoid it on the TV while Bug is in the room.  The doctors seem to think its just Bug's own frustration and love at her mom, and the books are no help on the subject.Anyone have any thoughts or suggestions?<end hijack>Peace to all, and all a good day   <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f600.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":D" title="Big grin    :D"  data-smilie="8"data-shortname=":D" /></blockquote>

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