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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Hypersmurf" data-source="post: 1716806" data-attributes="member: 1656">Honestly?Get out of that house.Tell her you didn't move to the UK to be her buddy; that you're leaving a contact number with her mother, and if she decides she's screwed up and you were what she wanted after all, to give you a call and you'll see how you're feeling about her.Tell her not to call you just to see how you're doing, or to 'hang out', or whatever.  And tell her mother not to give her the number unless she's determined to give the-two-of-you another shot.Yes, it could mean the end of the friendship as well as the relationship... but if the relationship is actually over permanently, then given the way you feel, trying to maintain that friendship dooms you to years of pain, and prevents you healing at all.And the hollow AMG-shaped void your absence leaves in her life might be enough to make her sort out what's important to her.I know that 'see less of her' is the last thing you feel like doing... but it's also the best thing for you, in my opinion and in my experience.  You say you need to 'not think so much'?  Trust me - you won't manage it in that house.-Hyp.</blockquote>