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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Superunknown_GP" data-source="post: 1717806" data-attributes="member: 8064">Ouch.AMG, I haven't been logged in here in forever, but I just did after reading this thread.This is the first time I've ever read a thread and felt worse about someone else's love life than my own.Kudos.Now, on to the advice:RUN. Run as fast you can. Yeah, maybe it's true love, and maybe it's not. On your part. But she cheated on you, got handfasted to someone else, and has left you behind with her mother. So she obviously doesn't love you. Or at least, not enough.Get the hell out of the situation. Go back to the US, or wander around Europe, or even just find a job wherein you can work under the table, but you have to get away from her for a while. 6 months is probably the LOW end of the amount of time you need. I'm 24, I've been through some awful <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile    :)"  data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" /><img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile    :)"  data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" /><img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile    :)"  data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" /><img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f642.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":)" title="Smile    :)"  data-smilie="1"data-shortname=":)" /> in my love life, and let me tell you, the perspective you'll gain by being away for a little while is astounding.Honestly, I'd tell you to go find another girl, even in a not-very-serious relationship, if I thought you'd listen to the advice. You've chased this one across an ocean, and all it's gotten you is hurt.And I know this is going to sound awful and condescending, but every time I've fallen in love (thrice, for those counting at home), I've felt like it was the big one, the real thing, eternal, conquering all. And the last two times? I felt like the previous time was just a joke in comparison. What I'm saying here is, maybe when you fall in love next time, you'll feel really foolish about this one. 'Cause she doesn't deserve you, if she's treating you like that. I can tell, because about six months ago, I would've written much the same post.Go. Live your life. Be someone. If you meet again on the path, then consider it. But give it a few miles first.</blockquote>

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