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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Ankh-Morpork Guard" data-source="post: 1719340" data-attributes="member: 10079">Grrr...just lost this post...I'll try again.The last thing I mentioned wasn't exactly stated right. Yes, the child is going to change her. She needs that. The father won't stay around...either she'll get rid of him(from the way she's talked with me, she never really thinks about him when she talks of the child), or he'll disappear on his own. He may care about her, but he's horrible when it comes to stress and such, and this situation has thrown him into things he never knew were coming...or rather, he didn't EXPECT were. He knew.But the thing is, she's in a lot deeper that she seems to think. I've tried warning her, but she won't listen. Its going to be a hell of a wake up call for her when she has this child, and she needs that. I know that she won't let this child get messed up. She can be very protective of things like that, and this child is something that she's come to want now. However, that doesn't mean its going to be easy on her. I hope its hard. Spiteful, yes, but not very. If she asks me for help, I'll provide it. The thing is, if she ASKS that means she really needs it. She's not the kind to every ask for help, mainly because of an old knee injury and hating feeling helpless because of it. Of course, this doesn't mean I'll not think about it if she DOES ask. Who knows where I'll be at that point...maybe I'll meet someone new. I hope I do...even if just a good friend. I need some form of emotional support. She was always that, and now I've got nothing...its bottling all this up that's getting to me and making it worse.</blockquote>

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