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<blockquote data-quote="Trainz" data-source="post: 1721359" data-attributes="member: 2122">Hey Ankh !&nbsp;&nbsp;Listen man... why did you post this thread ? I assume it was to receive some advice on your f'ed up situation. About everyone told you the same thing: GTFO. Yet, you keep defending her, you keep saying we're wrong.&nbsp;&nbsp;Then what ? Did you post this thread to get justification ? You won't find it here. What you'll find here is the brutal honest truth. And emotional support. But man, you have to wisen up.&nbsp;&nbsp;I have met a girl when I was about 20. Your friend sounds a lot like her. That girl always kept me at bay, and yet always clinged to me as an emotional crutch, until 5 years had passed and I realised I was used by someone who will forever live in the dark. I then shaped-up, said &quot;You know what, if you won't come around, I won't waste the rest of my life for you&quot; and almost never saw her again.&nbsp;&nbsp;5 years man. 5 friggin' years. It wasn't fun at all. You can either:&nbsp;&nbsp;A- Ignore all the experienced advice you got from this thread and shoot yourself in the foot, bracing yourself for a hellish not-so-merry-go-'round or;&nbsp;&nbsp;B- Wake-up and make a man of yourself. You dubbed yourself mature ? Act like it.&nbsp;&nbsp;I'm coming out strong at you. Brutally so. I'm sorry. I just don't want you to go through what I had to if I can help it.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Trainz, post: 1721359, member: 2122"] Hey Ankh ! Listen man... why did you post this thread ? I assume it was to receive some advice on your f'ed up situation. About everyone told you the same thing: GTFO. Yet, you keep defending her, you keep saying we're wrong. Then what ? Did you post this thread to get justification ? You won't find it here. What you'll find here is the brutal honest truth. And emotional support. But man, you have to wisen up. I have met a girl when I was about 20. Your friend sounds a lot like her. That girl always kept me at bay, and yet always clinged to me as an emotional crutch, until 5 years had passed and I realised I was used by someone who will forever live in the dark. I then shaped-up, said "You know what, if you won't come around, I won't waste the rest of my life for you" and almost never saw her again. 5 years man. 5 friggin' years. It wasn't fun at all. You can either: A- Ignore all the experienced advice you got from this thread and shoot yourself in the foot, bracing yourself for a hellish not-so-merry-go-'round or; B- Wake-up and make a man of yourself. You dubbed yourself mature ? Act like it. I'm coming out strong at you. Brutally so. I'm sorry. I just don't want you to go through what I had to if I can help it. [/QUOTE]

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