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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Deset Gled" data-source="post: 9689984" data-attributes="member: 7808">Some of these are very situational for me. The eating one, for example. 99% of the time, I really don't care. But if you're excessively loud or gross, that's a problem both on VTT and IRL.Multitasking is another. Sometimes, it's just not a problem. I normally keep a second window with the SRD open, for example. IRL, people have all kinds of socially acceptable fidgets (included game books). But obviously, when people stop paying attention to the game, it crosses a line.During a recent game that fell apart, the DM got super annoyed at one player who would openly crochet on screen, but there was another player that got away with playing something (solitaire or similar) on their second monitor. Obviously, it was a DM pet situation that escalated from there. I don't think the rest of us were supposed to know, but we knew. I wouldn't have cared too much about the background gaming as long as the guy was still attentive, but the fact that the DM had a problem with crochet but not that should have been a bigger red flag for other eventual problems.</blockquote>