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<blockquote data-quote="TheAuldGrump" data-source="post: 4042982" data-attributes="member: 6957">Welcome aboard!Too nice? Maybe, maybe not. I do not really have enough information.But it does sound like you might have spoken to the DM about things before the situation came to a head. Communication is always a good first step. (I know, it seems a lot of people have given that advice, hunker down, more will come along to repeat it. <img src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f61b.png" class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" width="64" height="64" alt=":p" title="Stick out tongue&nbsp; &nbsp; :p"&nbsp; data-smilie="7"data-shortname=":p" /> )If you had spoken to him, and were still having problems then looking for a group that is closer to your play style would have been a good idea. Letting it fester was not going to help.Bringing along a young child... can cause problems in a lot of groups - they may have continued leaving you out of things because you were showing more interest in the babe, which led you to feel more excluded, which led to you paying less attention to the game... a vicious circle.So, aside from saying 'talk things through' my only advice is 'I dunno.The Auld Grump</blockquote>

[QUOTE="TheAuldGrump, post: 4042982, member: 6957"] Welcome aboard! Too nice? Maybe, maybe not. I do not really have enough information. But it does sound like you might have spoken to the DM about things before the situation came to a head. Communication is always a good first step. (I know, it seems a lot of people have given that advice, hunker down, more will come along to repeat it. :p ) If you had spoken to him, and were still having problems then looking for a group that is closer to your play style would have been a good idea. Letting it fester was not going to help. Bringing along a young child... can cause problems in a lot of groups - they may have continued leaving you out of things because you were showing more interest in the babe, which led you to feel more excluded, which led to you paying less attention to the game... a vicious circle. So, aside from saying 'talk things through' my only advice is 'I dunno. The Auld Grump [/QUOTE]

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