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<blockquote data-quote="MGibster" data-source="post: 1072456" data-attributes="member: 4534"><p></p><p></p><p>They might assume you're new to gaming or to that game. Therefore they tend to answer the question in as simple terms as possible. Teaching someone a new game from scratch isn't that easy for most people. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That might just be you're personal hang up. The worst gamer I ever played with was female and she was a real bitch on wheels. I never took her to be a representative of all women in gaming. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Because we males aren't taught to show deference we're taught to be aggressive. If I say I like something a friend of mine might say it sucks. Guys don't generally take it personally. Of course I don't make request in the form of demands. On the other hand maybe they just sound like demands to you and not the other guys. I don't know. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Which makes you appear kind of weak to a group of all males. I'm not saying it is right or fair but that's the ins and outs. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>We're taught to be aggressive not passive which means we're not afraid of disagreement and typically don't even consider if it hurts someone's feelings. Especially when it comes to trivial stuff like favorite games, movies, or foods. </p><p></p><p>Marc</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MGibster, post: 1072456, member: 4534"] [B][/b] They might assume you're new to gaming or to that game. Therefore they tend to answer the question in as simple terms as possible. Teaching someone a new game from scratch isn't that easy for most people. [b][/b] That might just be you're personal hang up. The worst gamer I ever played with was female and she was a real bitch on wheels. I never took her to be a representative of all women in gaming. [b][/b] Because we males aren't taught to show deference we're taught to be aggressive. If I say I like something a friend of mine might say it sucks. Guys don't generally take it personally. Of course I don't make request in the form of demands. On the other hand maybe they just sound like demands to you and not the other guys. I don't know. [b][/b] Which makes you appear kind of weak to a group of all males. I'm not saying it is right or fair but that's the ins and outs. [b][/b] We're taught to be aggressive not passive which means we're not afraid of disagreement and typically don't even consider if it hurts someone's feelings. Especially when it comes to trivial stuff like favorite games, movies, or foods. Marc [/QUOTE]
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