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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Elf Witch" data-source="post: 1073339" data-attributes="member: 9037">You misunderstood me I agree with B. When I said I should not have to change and be like a guy to fit in I mean that I should be able to be myself that I should not have to pretend to think like a guy or talk like a guy to fit in. Just like I don't expect the guys to change their behavior and me more like a woman.  For example say I find crude comments about rape to be distatseful that they make me feel ill at ease. I should be able to say so and if it bothers me enough to ruin the game for me then the polite thing to do is to stop making those comments. The same as if a fellow gamer smells bad he or she  needs to be told hey wash before you come to the game. As someone else said gaming is a social thing.Let's face it men and women think differently also our society encourages and rewards different sets of behaviors in men and woman. But that does not mean we can't get along all it means is giving each other some slack and some understanding that we may be seeing and aporaching a problem from a different perspective.</blockquote>