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<blockquote data-quote="Celebrim" data-source="post: 6937402" data-attributes="member: 4937"><p>Now that I've made my position clear, I can say in 30+ years at dozens of tables, I have honestly never seen this stereotype actually happen. I know that it can happen, and have already outlined some theory as to why it happens (which I think accords pretty well with your theory), but I don't think this is as common as you think.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>In the rare cases even seen character backgrounds with sexual violence, it had nothing to do with stereotypical man-hating or playing the character that way. So far as I could guess playing amateur psychologist and not doing much inquiry into a players private affairs, it was largely an excuse for the player to play an essentially asexual character. They were more or less taking that off the table, which is fine. </p><p></p><p>I have also seen male characters who had been victims of sexual violence in their background. Again, no real interest in playing amateur psychologist on why that would be, and as long as they keep it 'PG', I don't care.</p><p></p><p>Personally, I find your stereotyping mildly offensive, as it seems to expect the worst of people and RPers in particular. That hasn't been my experience with people, though perhaps I've just been lucky.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Celebrim, post: 6937402, member: 4937"] Now that I've made my position clear, I can say in 30+ years at dozens of tables, I have honestly never seen this stereotype actually happen. I know that it can happen, and have already outlined some theory as to why it happens (which I think accords pretty well with your theory), but I don't think this is as common as you think. In the rare cases even seen character backgrounds with sexual violence, it had nothing to do with stereotypical man-hating or playing the character that way. So far as I could guess playing amateur psychologist and not doing much inquiry into a players private affairs, it was largely an excuse for the player to play an essentially asexual character. They were more or less taking that off the table, which is fine. I have also seen male characters who had been victims of sexual violence in their background. Again, no real interest in playing amateur psychologist on why that would be, and as long as they keep it 'PG', I don't care. Personally, I find your stereotyping mildly offensive, as it seems to expect the worst of people and RPers in particular. That hasn't been my experience with people, though perhaps I've just been lucky. [/QUOTE]
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