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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Elf Witch" data-source="post: 1125549" data-attributes="member: 9037">Oh my god does this sound familiar. I had a thread like this a few weeks ago. I got an e-mail today from one of my gaming buddies asking if I changed my user name.I was going to quit my game because of hidden resentments and the fact that I would leave the sessions feeling unfulfilled and bottled up feelings. I didn't want to leave because I love playing ang these people are great guys.My advice to you is to first figure out exactly what you want from the game. Then look at what is bothering you. Maybe write it down then take an honest apporach and look to see if you are contributing to any of your unhappiness. Then here is the hard part it was for me open your mouth get a discussion going. I was afraid of a backlash too but it didn't happen. I find it helps if you are willing to admit to what you have been doing wrong it makes it seem less like an attack and others are more willing to listen and respond in a favorable way.The fact that you are not sure about leaving says to me that you would rather work things out. That you are just looking for reasons to stay. I would try to fix things first and if it does not work out then leave</blockquote>