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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Harmon" data-source="post: 2056016" data-attributes="member: 24357">I don't know guys seems to me that Aerodm has a player that is going through something away from the table.  What that is?  We don't know.We had a Player that would say he'll be at the table at 1 and not show or call until 4.  It was rude, did he have a good excuse- nah, not usually, some times it was work (did he bother telling us- "have to work til 4," no he didn't) some times family stuff (did he call?  Nah).  He was a good Player, and at the time a friend so it was allowed even though it pissed everyone off, because it was rude and disrespectful to everyone.Point is- how good of a friend is he?  One person can answer that.  Is he worth the time and effort?  Depends on your definition of friendship.I guess I am a little more hard headed.  Talk to him- let him know what he has done to you and the others, if he doesn't think he's done you wrong and blows you off then he was never a friend and say "laters, dude." If he apologizes (whether or not he agrees with your thoughts that he might have been wrong) then he is a friend and worth keeping as such.For me- the emotional damage was more then I wanted to endure, and he never made the effort to apologize.  That tells me- the friendship was one sided.I hope you figure out how to handle it- rough times make some of the best friendship, because it tells you who your true friends are.</blockquote>