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<blockquote data-quote="Goblyns Hoard" data-source="post: 2071486" data-attributes="member: 19970">BlackSilverEven though I was the first (I think) in this thread to come out with the cut-and-run viewpoint I want to point out that I was doing it to present AeroDM with a valid option.&nbsp; From the original post I got the feeling that this other guy is not his friend.&nbsp; I know he states that he considers him a friend, but the way it reads he certainly isn’t acting as one.&nbsp; Maybe he’s going through some grief of some sort – but if that’s the case then if he really is a friend to AeroDM then he should be showing that – by talking to him.&nbsp; However the way I read it is that this guy has been doing this for a while:“One of our players has always been something of a problem gamer, but for the last year or so it has intensified a great deal”You’re right of course – we should value friendship highly.&nbsp; Of my current group 2 of the guys I’ve been gaming with for 10 years.&nbsp; Both of them travel 2.5 to 3 hours to get to my house (which is conveniently in the middle of the three) for a game when we get together.&nbsp; I value their friendship and always look forward to our games… I also know that they’re not going to fail to show up without telling me, won’t give me grief in game and aren’t going to walk out just because they don’t like what I did to their character.&nbsp; If someone shows such clear disrespect to the effort I put into a game then they clearly aren’t acting like a friend.&nbsp; It’s not down to AeroDM to apologise for his behaviour – it’s down to his so-called friend to start acting like one.The Hoard</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Goblyns Hoard, post: 2071486, member: 19970"] BlackSilver Even though I was the first (I think) in this thread to come out with the cut-and-run viewpoint I want to point out that I was doing it to present AeroDM with a valid option. From the original post I got the feeling that this other guy is not his friend. I know he states that he considers him a friend, but the way it reads he certainly isn’t acting as one. Maybe he’s going through some grief of some sort – but if that’s the case then if he really is a friend to AeroDM then he should be showing that – by talking to him. However the way I read it is that this guy has been doing this for a while: “One of our players has always been something of a problem gamer, but for the last year or so it has intensified a great deal” You’re right of course – we should value friendship highly. Of my current group 2 of the guys I’ve been gaming with for 10 years. Both of them travel 2.5 to 3 hours to get to my house (which is conveniently in the middle of the three) for a game when we get together. I value their friendship and always look forward to our games… I also know that they’re not going to fail to show up without telling me, won’t give me grief in game and aren’t going to walk out just because they don’t like what I did to their character. If someone shows such clear disrespect to the effort I put into a game then they clearly aren’t acting like a friend. It’s not down to AeroDM to apologise for his behaviour – it’s down to his so-called friend to start acting like one. The Hoard [/QUOTE]

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