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<blockquote data-quote="Oryan77" data-source="post: 4131443" data-attributes="member: 18701">If you bend the rules or customize rules just to help out his PC, he will expect that to happen again &amp; again for any future characters and when he levels up. He'll take advantage of your generosity. I've had players do this to me and now I stick to the rules from the books. I don't make custom items for people anymore, nor do I allow them to swap abilities or skills for other ones unless there's a rule in the book for that.Never cater to whiney players or they'll make you regret it.At least you know that his wife will keep playing if he quits. You've gone above &amp; beyond to try and please him so far and he still causes you grief. Just stick to your guns and run things the way you want to run it so you will be happy. If he quits it will be his own decision. I've had couples in our game that said when the other left, he'll stick around. They'll play maybe 1 or 2 sessions without their partner and then they never show up again. Hopefully that won't happen with your group.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Oryan77, post: 4131443, member: 18701"] If you bend the rules or customize rules just to help out his PC, he will expect that to happen again & again for any future characters and when he levels up. He'll take advantage of your generosity. I've had players do this to me and now I stick to the rules from the books. I don't make custom items for people anymore, nor do I allow them to swap abilities or skills for other ones unless there's a rule in the book for that. Never cater to whiney players or they'll make you regret it. At least you know that his wife will keep playing if he quits. You've gone above & beyond to try and please him so far and he still causes you grief. Just stick to your guns and run things the way you want to run it so you will be happy. If he quits it will be his own decision. I've had couples in our game that said when the other left, he'll stick around. They'll play maybe 1 or 2 sessions without their partner and then they never show up again. Hopefully that won't happen with your group. [/QUOTE]

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