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<blockquote data-quote="Olaf the Stout" data-source="post: 4131855" data-attributes="member: 13703">I applaud you Witch Elf.&nbsp; I think you have done just about everything possible to please your friend.&nbsp; It seems to me he wants everything done his way or no way at all.&nbsp; From reading your posts it appears to me that D&amp;D isn't the game for him.&nbsp; He doesn't seem to like the mechanics of the game and the fact that his character isn't kick-ass from level 1.I know that he's going through a tough time in real life at the moment, and you seem to be extremely mindful of that, but I don't think you should do any more for him in-game than you have already done.&nbsp; He seems to have several in-game advantages over the other players (such as higher wealth) as it is.&nbsp; Giving him more, like allowing him to gestalt will just alienate your other players.I would suggest you don't do him any more in-game favours.&nbsp; It's not fair to everyone else playing.&nbsp; If he doesn't like it, he has the option of leaving.&nbsp; As he is your friend you can still see him outside of your game.&nbsp; Maybe you could organise another time each week to get together and play something else with him.Olaf the Stout</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Olaf the Stout, post: 4131855, member: 13703"] I applaud you Witch Elf. I think you have done just about everything possible to please your friend. It seems to me he wants everything done his way or no way at all. From reading your posts it appears to me that D&D isn't the game for him. He doesn't seem to like the mechanics of the game and the fact that his character isn't kick-ass from level 1. I know that he's going through a tough time in real life at the moment, and you seem to be extremely mindful of that, but I don't think you should do any more for him in-game than you have already done. He seems to have several in-game advantages over the other players (such as higher wealth) as it is. Giving him more, like allowing him to gestalt will just alienate your other players. I would suggest you don't do him any more in-game favours. It's not fair to everyone else playing. If he doesn't like it, he has the option of leaving. As he is your friend you can still see him outside of your game. Maybe you could organise another time each week to get together and play something else with him. Olaf the Stout [/QUOTE]

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