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<blockquote data-quote="Ridley's Cohort" data-source="post: 313176" data-attributes="member: 545">I am with Blackmoria.I think it is unlikely the time you actually spend gaming is the real issue.&nbsp; It is most probable that resentment over other unresolved issues come to a boil when the subject of gaming comes up.To be blunt, IMHO, I think you need to take a fresh look at whatever other issues are in your marriage.&nbsp; If those are addressed a fair understanding can probably be negotiated out over gaming.To put things in &quot;perspective&quot;, the fact that you spend ~5 hours a month away from the family wasting your time on an absolutely useless activity with some old friends is not something your wife should get distressed about if things are otherwise going well.I am not really sure what to make about the anti-D&amp;D intolerance factor.&nbsp; The fact she actually tried it suggests she is not a rabid religious fanatic about it, and it can be negotiated over.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Ridley's Cohort, post: 313176, member: 545"] I am with Blackmoria. I think it is unlikely the time you actually spend gaming is the real issue. It is most probable that resentment over other unresolved issues come to a boil when the subject of gaming comes up. To be blunt, IMHO, I think you need to take a fresh look at whatever other issues are in your marriage. If those are addressed a fair understanding can probably be negotiated out over gaming. To put things in "perspective", the fact that you spend ~5 hours a month away from the family wasting your time on an absolutely useless activity with some old friends is not something your wife should get distressed about if things are otherwise going well. I am not really sure what to make about the anti-D&D intolerance factor. The fact she actually tried it suggests she is not a rabid religious fanatic about it, and it can be negotiated over. [/QUOTE]

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