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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Elf Witch" data-source="post: 5955293" data-attributes="member: 9037">It is not just the t shirt it is the general unkept grooming that often goes with it. There is also a time and a place for them. I wear  nerd t shirts to cons but I don't wear them every where.As for the t shirt on fat people well it is because so many look slovenly. I am over weight and it is possible to find shirts that fit and look more flattering on an overweight person. The world is not fair and people judge you on how you look if you are over weight you get judged that mush harsher. That is why I never dress like a slob when I go out a thin woman can get away with it more than a fat woman who is already being judged as a fat slob. I am always well groomed when I leave my house. I wear nice clothes, make up and have my hair groomed I may be fat but I am not a slob. And that is how I cope with the rude stares and the nasty mean comments from strangers about my weight. I have found taking care of my looks increases my self confidence and makes me feel better about myself. For the most part most of the fat woman I know who live in t shirts do so because they don't care how they look because they have this attitude that they are fat so why bother. They really hate how they look and they suffer low self esteem because of it.</blockquote>