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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Willie the Duck" data-source="post: 9877351" data-attributes="member: 6799660">No one has suggested a binary, or throwing anything out. Certainly no one is pretending anything. OP complained about a problem they were having (specifying that it was issues they were having at their table), people have offered up a mix of commiseration and advice. The tone has remained, for the most part, steadfastly civil, supportive, and cooperative; with a goal of resolving the OP's problem. Something which, given the must-win-the-discussion behavior that often pops up here and elsewhere, is welcome behavior.Who do you think is preventing or attempting to dissuade discussion?If your issue is that (all of two) people are singling you out, the entire reason for that is that you said you did not understand the OPs complaint (when the one thing I think we all agree on is that they have been pretty clear about their concerns).If you want to read the OP's comments about their problems, come up with responses, and feel heard and validated, I think everyone would be wonderfully at peace with that. The more people ready and willing to help them resolve their concerns, the merrier.</blockquote>