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Message: <blockquote data-quote="ECMO3" data-source="post: 9809728" data-attributes="member: 7030563">This is all fine and it is not what I am talking about.I don't like when games are oversexualized, nothing in your posts suggests your games are.Adult "consenting" sex in game absolutely causes friction at tables and what is acceptable and "tolerable" varies widely individual to individual.  To start with "consent" is not something easily and objectively definable, especially with disparities in age, power or in D&D magic and player-vs-character situations.  It can cause friction regardless of the sexuality of the players or the characters involved.  When it comes to safety, some people do not feel safe in that discussion, just like some people don't feel safe talking about sex at work or with family members or in a bunch of other social circumstances.  Meanwhile others are completely ok to share or hear the explicit details on what happens between the sheets.While these topics do not necessarily make me personally feel unsafe, it is not something I want in my games either.</blockquote>