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<blockquote data-quote="gban007" data-source="post: 9336068" data-attributes="member: 56488">editing my somewhat flippant response that I&nbsp; think was just adding to the negativity, I will just say there is a lot of bad things in the world, and for better or worse people end up having to choose what they will be concerned with as such for their own mental wellbeing, and different people will have different things they will latch on to / bang on about.&nbsp; Almost any action undertaken by people that involve other people could hurt people, so a blanket statement like the above could lead down a rabbit hole, such that could say that the above statement is indeed hurting people by accusing them of deflecting, and so are they then allowed to keep pointing out in any conversatino with you that you said they were deflecting?&nbsp; I don't think that would be fair as such, but shows there is a limit somewhere, and will likely differ from person to person.Also people come to hobby spaces etc for enjoyment and want to avoid negativity, and I think it is fine for them to express that desire / iterate how much the negativity is impacting them, as is surely just also pointing out negative effects, and if it is still bad no matter the degree, they should have just as much right as someone wanting to keeping brining up Pinkertons.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="gban007, post: 9336068, member: 56488"] editing my somewhat flippant response that I think was just adding to the negativity, I will just say there is a lot of bad things in the world, and for better or worse people end up having to choose what they will be concerned with as such for their own mental wellbeing, and different people will have different things they will latch on to / bang on about. Almost any action undertaken by people that involve other people could hurt people, so a blanket statement like the above could lead down a rabbit hole, such that could say that the above statement is indeed hurting people by accusing them of deflecting, and so are they then allowed to keep pointing out in any conversatino with you that you said they were deflecting? I don't think that would be fair as such, but shows there is a limit somewhere, and will likely differ from person to person. Also people come to hobby spaces etc for enjoyment and want to avoid negativity, and I think it is fine for them to express that desire / iterate how much the negativity is impacting them, as is surely just also pointing out negative effects, and if it is still bad no matter the degree, they should have just as much right as someone wanting to keeping brining up Pinkertons. [/QUOTE]

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