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<blockquote data-quote="Elf Witch" data-source="post: 4170491" data-attributes="member: 9037"><p>You may be right. I always knew that she prefered fantasy to modern stuff for example when the Star Wars game was mentioned as possible other game she was totally against it.</p><p>But I also had a feeling that she was not happy in the Shadowrun game for other reasons. Sometimes it is hard to be the new one in the group.</p><p></p><p>There was a rather nasty isssue a few years ago in the group I played 3.0 with it was made up of the same Shadowrun players which included her husband and a new DM. She wanted to join that group and the other players including her husband did not want her to play. I was the only one who voted for her to join the group. She never knew the real reason the DM told her that he thought six players was big enough. She knew there was more going on and came out and asked me point blank so I tld her the truth that a couple of the players had issues with her from the Shadowrun game. I didn't tell her my roommate and her husband voted against her. I know she was hurt and maybe it has festered all this time.</p><p></p><p>She plays in the game I DM and so does my roommate. And now something she has said in passing is starting to make some sense. My world is a homebrew my roommate drew the maps for it becuse I suck at it. She took my rough design and made beautiful maps. </p><p></p><p>I also did some changes in the cleric instead of a generic one size fits all like in the players handbook I made changes to make them fit their god better. As an example clerics of Ehlona can't wear heavy armor but they get an extra starting feat of point blank shot and they get access to some of the druid spells. My roommate who is very good at building balanced prestige classes helped me with this.</p><p></p><p>This was before we started playing. The player in question said to me in passing one day when I mentioned my world she corrected me and said no its both yours and roommates world. I laughed and said no only some of the crunchy bits and didn't think anything more about it until now.</p><p></p><p>In my game my roommate does not play the face nor does she play a character who knows the world. The player says she can't wait to play and loves my game. The only dissatisfaction she ever expressed was that her ranger was not as good in combat as the monk, and cleric so I helped her build a kick ass sorcerer. </p><p></p><p>I want her to have fun in the game and I don't want her to feel left out and she is a great friend who I usually have a great time with. </p><p></p><p>I do have major issues with the passive aggressive way she is handling this. As friends we have shared so much we had I thought a great deal of trust in each other. She should open her mouth and just tell me the truth of what is bothering her. It is very hard to handle things if I have to guess what is really bothering her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elf Witch, post: 4170491, member: 9037"] You may be right. I always knew that she prefered fantasy to modern stuff for example when the Star Wars game was mentioned as possible other game she was totally against it. But I also had a feeling that she was not happy in the Shadowrun game for other reasons. Sometimes it is hard to be the new one in the group. There was a rather nasty isssue a few years ago in the group I played 3.0 with it was made up of the same Shadowrun players which included her husband and a new DM. She wanted to join that group and the other players including her husband did not want her to play. I was the only one who voted for her to join the group. She never knew the real reason the DM told her that he thought six players was big enough. She knew there was more going on and came out and asked me point blank so I tld her the truth that a couple of the players had issues with her from the Shadowrun game. I didn't tell her my roommate and her husband voted against her. I know she was hurt and maybe it has festered all this time. She plays in the game I DM and so does my roommate. And now something she has said in passing is starting to make some sense. My world is a homebrew my roommate drew the maps for it becuse I suck at it. She took my rough design and made beautiful maps. I also did some changes in the cleric instead of a generic one size fits all like in the players handbook I made changes to make them fit their god better. As an example clerics of Ehlona can't wear heavy armor but they get an extra starting feat of point blank shot and they get access to some of the druid spells. My roommate who is very good at building balanced prestige classes helped me with this. This was before we started playing. The player in question said to me in passing one day when I mentioned my world she corrected me and said no its both yours and roommates world. I laughed and said no only some of the crunchy bits and didn't think anything more about it until now. In my game my roommate does not play the face nor does she play a character who knows the world. The player says she can't wait to play and loves my game. The only dissatisfaction she ever expressed was that her ranger was not as good in combat as the monk, and cleric so I helped her build a kick ass sorcerer. I want her to have fun in the game and I don't want her to feel left out and she is a great friend who I usually have a great time with. I do have major issues with the passive aggressive way she is handling this. As friends we have shared so much we had I thought a great deal of trust in each other. She should open her mouth and just tell me the truth of what is bothering her. It is very hard to handle things if I have to guess what is really bothering her. [/QUOTE]
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