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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Umbran" data-source="post: 7552224" data-attributes="member: 177">You have some responsibility to your current group.  Ask them what they think about the whole thing.You should talk to this person as if they were a reasonable adult before they start to play with you.  You can talk about their habits you've observed, and how they won't fit into your current game.  If they can't hack that discussion, don't let them play.  If *you* can't hack this conversation, maybe you need to fill out the, "have difficult conversation," skillset before you can take on such a player.People are quick to say, "this person sounds like a jerk".  But if nobody ever talks to him about it, he may not realize that his habits are problematic.  Jerkitude is a learned behavior.  It can be unlearned, if you have a decent teacher.</blockquote>